Start with a short vacation
Before a long trip, start with a short weekend break. Plan together, prepare everything such as transportation, accommodation, places to visit, activities to enjoy together... Starting with this short trip, you will be better prepared for the long trips in the future, so that both of you can feel more comfortable, happy and connected to each other.
Create the necessary private space for each trip of two.
Build a simple schedule
Don't let your vacation become boring and stressful with a rigid schedule. Take advantage of the time together with interesting activities that both of you look forward to. Although planning is essential before every trip, the purpose of this first trip for the two of you is to understand each other better and feel happy moments together. Therefore, sometimes let go of the strict plans to freely explore the beauty of the place you are going to.
Together
Where to go next, where to stay if you miss the bus or train, whether to go scuba diving or mountain climbing… are things that the two of you should take turns deciding along the way. Don’t assume that either of you has to be the “leader” and make all the decisions. Every journey requires consensus, and even making decisions is a way for the two of you to show that you share your life with each other.
A trip will make the love between two people more connected.
Choose a destination that you both enjoy.
Make sure you both look forward to the trip. If one person loves golf and the other wants to be in nature, a golf resort may not be the right fit for you. Don’t force yourself to go to a place you don’t enjoy, as this will only make things worse. Work together to find a trip you both enjoy.
Let's talk about finance
One of the most sensitive reasons why you two become strangers is financial issues. Knowing how to solve this problem will help your relationship last longer. Discuss to come to an agreement on who will "pay" for this trip or simply, you can split it equally. Then, both of you will comfortably enjoy the time together and help the relationship become better.
Understand each other's travel preferences
Choosing the same or different types of travel is also important. If one person likes to backpack and travel, the other likes to go on tours, or one likes to relax on a sunny and windy beach, the other likes to roam on mountain passes, then you both need to agree.
Capture the moments together
Don’t let one person hold the camera to take a picture of the other person, then have to ask someone else to take a picture of the two of you. To solve this problem, a tripod is a good idea if you want to take pictures together anywhere. Looking back later, the couple photos will definitely be more interesting and memorable than a photo of a single person.
Bring the necessary items
Don’t carry your entire house on your backpack. Only when you’re sweating from a long walk will you realize how much weight your backpack is actually carrying. Unlike normal women, when traveling, you can’t ask your boyfriend to carry your stuff for you throughout the trip, because they’re just as busy with their own stuff as you are. So, the advice is to leave your beauty products, clothes, and unnecessary electronic devices at home.
Flexible and tolerant
All the elements such as care, patience, tolerance… that a love must have, need to be promoted even more when you travel. When at home, we often imagine traveling as fun, relaxation without knowing that sometimes the two of you have to wake up at dawn to welcome the dawn, or stay up all night to watch a star change, or suddenly one of you has health problems and the trip is postponed. At those times, instead of being upset, blaming each other, take a few days to rest, live the daily life of the locals. In the end, you will see that those are the necessary moments of silence for a long trip.
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