Thanh Vinh (30 years old, doing business in Hai Phong) traveled with his girlfriend last month and shared: “We went to Dai Lai together. The trip went very smoothly, but sometimes my girlfriend got angry for no reason. She often complained about being tired from traveling and not liking the local food, making it quite difficult for me to indulge her preferences.”
Couple travel and personal issues
Couple travel is always romantic, that everyone knows. But to find a completely happy, completely compatible, and conflict-free couple is not an easy task. However, the long time of love also makes couples ignore and take lightly the other person's problems.
Thanh Vinh and his girlfriend often travel to rekindle their love. But perhaps because they travel so much, they encounter many funny situations.
Thanh Vinh and his girlfriend on a trip to Dai Lai
“The times she was too busy playing and didn’t follow the pre-arranged schedule, it affected the trip a lot. One time, the two of us went on a group trip, but because we were too busy shopping, we missed the bus home, had to take a taxi later, and also missed the group outing,” Thanh Vinh confided.
There were times when the argument over the unsatisfactory trip made him and his girlfriend angry with each other for a long time, it seemed impossible to reconcile and continue the trip. However, he was always willing to give in to his girlfriend because she was the most important, if the trivial matters were within his control, he was willing to ignore or find a way to handle them, as long as he did not make her sad.
He believes he will always give in to his girlfriend.
He sometimes gets angry with his lover, but also loves her: “If there is a disagreement, we usually sit down and talk to each other to listen to each other's point of view, analyze together to help the other person understand our point of view. Then come up with the most harmonious choice possible so that both of us feel comfortable.”
Forgiveness and understanding are the keys to everything.
Many couples do not have time to be together like that, so every trip is a good opportunity to connect with each other. Minh (32 years old, IT staff in Ho Chi Minh) shared: “My job is often very busy, there are days when I have to work overtime until late at night, asking for leave is also very difficult, so my wife often blames me for being inconsiderate. But this time I am determined to take three days off to take my wife to Quy Nhon to play.”
“When I got there, I still had to check my work via email and handle it immediately when my boss needed it. I even forgot my camera and accessory bag to take pictures for my wife as promised because I was in such a hurry. She got angry and insisted on leaving, thinking that I really only cared about work,” he laughed.
Traveling is an opportunity for couples to talk more (Illustration photo)
Minh and his wife also had sweet and peaceful moments when they both gave in to each other: “When she planned to book a flight back that morning, I kept begging and promising to drop everything to take her out. Then I turned off my email notifications and work chat groups, immediately hired a taxi to take her to the white sand Ky Co beach to take pictures.”
“My wife said that the photos I took with my phone were already beautiful, she just needed me to stay by her side for a few days so she wouldn’t feel so sad. Hearing this made me so sad, it turns out that all this time I was just too busy working and making my wife worry” - he said softly.
It can be seen that couples have their own problems, but each person chooses for themselves the most suitable solutions. There is tolerance, understanding, arguments and conflicts, but they still trust and continue to accompany each other.
Although couples' trips contain many problems and unexplained stories, if love is big enough and forgiveness and tolerance are always present, then perhaps no problem is big enough to separate them.
