1. Learn about each other's interests
Your partner’s interests on a regular basis may be different from their interests when traveling. Instead of imposing your own views, ask lots of questions to understand each other better.
Some questions you can apply to ask your lover are:What kind of places do you like to go (city, nature, or culture)?;If I move around a lot, do you think it's okay, or should I rest while moving?...
2. Let the other person give their own opinion
To respect each other’s opinions, you can ask a few questions to bridge the gap so that both parties can express their opinions. Remember, no one wants to be a burden to anyone except in a few cases of... “debt”.
3. Sit down together and make a schedule
Your trip will be more complete and meaningful if you both sit down and plan it together. You can discuss the time, the places to visit and the activities to participate in.
However, not all the time you have to be together, so the easiest way to make a perfect schedule is to create a Google planner and assign each other tasks according to each location. Making a schedule together is a way to show respect and help you understand each other better.
4. Don't rush
The trip is for both of you, not just you. Rushing and getting annoyed when the other person doesn't have time to focus on the trip is the wrong move. So don't rush, be calm and take your time to create the most reasonable plan that is suitable for both of you. The most enjoyable thing about traveling together is the process of being together, not the destination.
5. Be straightforward about the “wallet”
It is essential to clearly determine the cost that each party wants to spend on the trip. Discussing clearly from the beginning not only helps couples consider the plan but also helps couples save time traveling. No one wants to pay too much just to look good in front of their lover.
6. Be prepared for rejection
Sometimes, there are places you really want to go but you can't convince your lover even though you put a lot of effort into it. Or there are factors such as time, money, and even the fact that your lover suddenly can't go with you. You should prepare yourself mentally so as not to be too disappointed when your lover refuses. Instead, understand and sympathize with each other, because love is not just to be together on the upcoming trip.
